There’s a good amount of effort involved when it comes to dating. You want to make sure you find someone whose interests are similar to yours so you can enjoy one another’s company, yet still have some healthy differences so you can learn from each other, and you want to be physically attracted to each other as well.
It may not seem like a lot, however, when you add those two major components to a slew of other important factors, it’s almost a full-time job trying to find the person you can potentially build a future with.
So, if you just deleted your match.com profile after making a likely connection, before you go on professing your love through a Drake lyric, singing “Keke, do you love me? Are you riding?…” here are six subjects to touch on before making it official.
WHAT YOU WANT
One of the most important conversations to have at the very beginning of the relationship is discussing what exactly you both want. Do they want to have a monogamous relationship or are they looking for a friends with benefits type of situation? Is marriage something they want in the future?
It’s important to ask these questions with your partner to make sure you’re both on the same page and not wasting each other’s time with having different expectations and outlooks on life.
How is their relationship with their family and friends? If they admit to
Source: Black Doctor – Healthy Living